Girija Oak, the daughter of renowned Marathi actor Girish Oak and pharmacist Padmashree Phatak, has opened up about the profound impact of her parents' separation on her life. In a recent interview, she revealed that the separation wasn't a sudden shock but a daily reality she endured. Oak explained that the bond between her parents was gradually eroded, leading to the decision to separate. Despite the challenges, she emphasized that it was a gradual process, and she didn't fully comprehend its emotional toll until later. As time passed, the stress took a physical toll, manifesting as panic attacks and palpitations, even during seemingly non-stressful moments. Initially, Oak believed she had a medical condition, seeking professional help and eventually discovering the need for therapy. She struggled to express her feelings about therapy, attributing it to a lack of understanding rather than stigma. Girija Oak's parents' separation left her with a sense of baggage, feeling like a product of a failed marriage. This influenced her approach to relationships, causing her to internalize the pressure to 'do it right.' However, her relationship with Suhrud, a film producer, brought emotional safety and friendship. Their deep connection and understanding of each other's sensitive areas have been a source of comfort. Before meeting Suhrud, Oak experienced a significant heartbreak, but their relationship provided a sense of balm and perspective. Their bond has endured for nearly 15 years, including 14 years of marriage, and she expresses a strong desire to continue choosing her partner every day.
